The feeling of inadequacy lingers in my head every day. Days when I try so hard to be grateful with what I have, and eventually I fall back to square one. 

Being in your 20s can be a weird thing. You have friends pursuing their dream jobs, getting married, some even have kids, some moved out from their parents' homes, some who dump their 9 to 5 job to pursue an unconventional career,

while there are some who have no idea what they want to do in life, some who have yet to find true love, and there are those whose biggest challenge is to get out of bed. 

Having a bird's eye view on this made me realise that, some people take a little bit longer to sort their life out, and that is okay. What's more interesting is that, some may have what they wanted, then realising, hey, maybe this is not what I truly want after all. 

Even when you have achieved your dreams, you can never be fulfilled. 

But guess what, friends?

Be unfulfilled. Be inadequate. Be at a crossroad. 

Because only when you're at a standstill, will you be able to have the drive to find what you want. Achieved what you want? Find another goal. We are always going to feel like we are not doing enough, but know that, the fact that you are still searching for that fulfilment is something worth celebrating. 

Go at your own pace, what you see is truly an embellished version of others, take your time, and do your own thing. You are never at loss when you focus on yourself.