Dear you,

How did you get into this 'fixer' path? I was there before, it was a horrible path to take. You think that you're responsible for everyone's emotions. You feel the need to have this 'superhero complex', because you need to take charge of your life, only then, your life will be perfect, the pretty picture you've always needed.

But my dear, I hope you know that it is time to let go of that. You don't have to fix anyone. Let go of that imagery of that perfect life. Embrace the fact that your life will be imperfect. They will change if they want to. You can do so many things in your life, but fixing others shouldn't be it. 

Rather, try to fix yourself, because you are worth a lot more.